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Unpacking heirlooms
Husband Jack and I recently moved into a smaller home closer to where he works. While we immediately loved the short daily commute, we...


Empty nest vacations
When the weather started to warm up this spring, husband Jack and I decided to have a little fun--just the two of us! So we did what we...


Reversing the midlife mind spiral
A few years ago, I was washing my face over the bathroom sink, and I knocked a favorite earring loose. It fell into the stream of running...


Applying faith to midlife fears
I want to talk about hard stuff today. Fair warning, because if you are in a season where life is going well, this read might not feel...


Taking off the supermom cape
I'm an empty nest mom now, but once upon a time I had four kids at home, usually all day--former homeschooler here--every day! All four...


What's your midlife mindset?
Can you believe it's almost February? The first month of 2024 sped by! Our family calendar included a significant event which made it...


Depth perception
Last week husband Jack and I had a "discussion" about driving. . . mostly because I said "Whoa!" too much while we drove around...


Purposeful presents
Giving gifts that strengthen your family ties Is your Christmas shopping done? Mine sure isn't, and the Christmas countdown calendar is...


Two for dinner
When I think of "Thanksgiving dinner," my mind plays a movie of family crowded around a table laden with our favorite foods. The movie...


Handing down hope
It's almost Thanksgiving! Are you starting to prepare for this annual day of gratefulness? I am! It's one of our family's favorite...


Stockpiling joy
“Who am I now that the kids have left home?” I hear this question from nearly every new empty nest mom. After years of being the most...


On a personal note - October 2023
Some of you might have noticed I didn't write a new blog post this last week. For the last two weeks, husband Jack and I attended...


Goal: thriving in the empty nest
In midlife, it is just too easy to focus on the losses and forget about the gains. I feel it myself, the temptation to give in to...


Midlife travel adventures
Guest post from Jennifer Donaldson at tailorjoy.com One long delightful weekend away. No schedule to keep. No hangry kids. Just me, my...


Finding joy in the empty nest
I’ve been writing a lot about the significant tasks and challenges that face us when the kids fly the nest, but for the next few weeks,...


The empty nest: Where past and future collide
Are you stuck in the empty nest transition? Do you long for the days when the kids were home and dread a lonely future? Good news: you...


Onward we grow
Welcome to midlife, a key, developmental stage where we set the trajectory for the rest of our lives! You probably didn’t expect to be...


The empty nest . . . the end or a beginning?
“What am I going to do with myself after the kids leave the house?” This one question seems to haunt many women as their children...


The empty nest is not a syndrome
The internet is loaded with information about almost everything, and the empty nest is no exception. This is not the same thing as...


Mom habit metamorphosis
Last night I cleaned out the refrigerator— again —and sorted out the excess food that my husband and I weren’t going to finish before we...


Celebrate the empty nest
When children start leaving the house, that change can become a challenge, even for someone who handles change well. It was fairly...


Relinquishment: release your expectations
Midlife can bring loss--sometimes big, sometimes small. How do we let go of the good things we love and open our hearts to new things?


Not my purpose
Yesterday I almost bought a major furniture makeover project. My husband Jack and I have been looking for a piece to fill a blank wall...


Making time for midlife reflection
Days fly by faster and faster the older we get. Are we taking time for reflection in order to create a life we love?


Reasonable resolutions
It’s a new year—welcome, 2023! In America, our default approach to a new year is to set resolutions. Recently, it has become popular to...


On autumn & aging
Do you enjoy the changing seasons? I sure do. Yesterday was unseasonably warm for the 30th of October, and many of my friends were...
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